I flew to Romania in October 2011. Here are some pictures from the first night there. Was a little hungry and decided to head on down to McDonalds which was open 24 hrs. After eating, I left the restaurant, navigating through the group of young people outside. I made the mistake of smiling at someone, the only person who would even make eye contact with me. Before I knew it she was offering me her services with a price list. I declined graciously several times before I had to literally peal her hand off my arm to escape her! I was half way back to the hotel before she eventually stopped following me.
MFC Modelling – A Question Of Morality? pt 1
Sometimes these models will chat, dance, tease, and may even strip or masturbate for money from the members of MFC. Unlike other types of adult entertainment, this is not done in physical person to person settings, but in virtual situations online. And most of the models would never think to do other adult entertainment work which might require physical contact with the customer. Their only protection for privacy comes from the anonymity of a ‘stage’ name and a webcam connected to the internet through their personal computer.
Most of them work for themselves. They are self-employed. Entrepreneurs. They set up their own accounts with MFC, or some other online adult chat website. Some models will work in managed studios, particularly in Eastern Europe that supply a physical room, computer with a webcam and a connection to the internet.
Checkout The Poor Farmer – A Bedtime Story
If I find a story that I think is worth telling, I will tell it. And I will do so with my own style, regardless of it’s origin. Everyone claims some version of The Poor Farmer. A parable of sorts that teaches us that not everything that appears to be bad will necessarily be bad down the road. Likewise, not everything good will always be good. Life has an interesting way of delivering both. Good and bad. And we are never sure which is which except with the passage of time.
When You Are Happy…

Do A Happy Dance!!
Statistics #1 – Promise Keepers
Internet Filter Review reported in 2005 that 53% of Promise Keepers surveyed said they viewed pornography during the previous week. Promise Keepers is a christian organization. Its goal is to evangelize (proselytize) and disciple (indoctrinate) men to the christian ‘relationship’ (religion). To their credit they have tackled issues often viewed as ‘off-limits’ during sunday morning sermons in most churches, such as pornography use among christian men. 53%. Does this statistic sound realistic? Many readers may think not. But another statistic shows that 47% of christians say pornography use is a major problem in their homes. In 2005. Continue reading
Perhaps ‘Left & Right’ Should Be ‘Mom & Dad’
I don’t care who you are, you probably have an opinion about politics. You probably know who you voted for or who you would never vote for or whether or not you even did vote in the last election, no matter the level of government. Most people have an opinion about whether they think social welfare is a good idea or a bad idea. Whether they think the taxes they pay are too high but someone else is not paying enough. They will question whether we have a large enough army or if it is too large. And offer opinions about expenditures for road repair. We have many opinions about issues that we have given to the government to decide. Continue reading
The Road Less Traveled
The poet, Robert Frost, ends his poem “The Road Less Traveled” with the oft quoted lines,
“Two roads diverged in the woods, and I took the one less traveled by and that has made all the difference.”
The poem has served numerous purposes over the years, so why not one more?
Frost is expressing what seems to be a simple and time tested truth. When there are two paths before you, the one less traveled will be more satisfying and enriching to your life. However, if you choose the path of least resistance, the path of water, the path of gravity, while the road will be easier to travel it is easier for that very reason. Everyone else walks that well trodden path! Continue reading
The ‘Coincidence’
As I discussed toward the end of my post, MFC – Home Of A Fatherless Generation, I briefly tell of a good friend at MFC first talking about the absence of their father in their life. This was ‘by mistake’ of course. These things always are. At the time I thought nothing of this conversation as a ‘big picture’ issue with respect to their work. This was something intimate and personal. One human being, who let a small part of their personal life into this world. Because of my own past, my own experience with a workaholic dad, and my own interests in understanding how his absence affected my life, it did result in a subsequent conversation and a letter to my friend about this. And after discussing this matter with them I did promise to never bring this up again as usually this type of intrusion is not always welcome. And I didn’t bring it up again with her. Continue reading
I Just Want To Talk
I have asked myself, “What is the reason you would rather talk to these women on MFC than women (or any friends) who share other interests with you… religious people who believe what you believe… and social websites like FaceBook, E-Harmony, Plenty-Of-Fish, etc? Why not use these?”
I would like to say it is because of my ‘addiction’ but it is not. My addiction may have brought me to the MFC website, but I have ended up making friends with these women. I might have watched the models at first, not knowing anything about them. But once I get to know them, I have difficulty going into their rooms as an addict, even while they are working. I don’t stop watching them because I find them less attractive. In fact, I find them more attractive and interesting. But I chose to stay out of their rooms while they ‘work’. Continue reading
Wrestling With Addiction And Religion
I don’t mind saying… so I will… that I am an addict.
From my early teenage years. I discovered the calendar girls in my father’s trade magazines at work. They were either scantily clad or topless women near the middle of the magazine. As I grew older it moved from these rather ‘innocent’ images to that of Playboy and Penthouse, and occasionally Swank or something more hardcore in content.
This wasn’t easy for me. Not only did I grow up in a religious home, a pentecostal evangelical home, but I took the religious ideas I had learned seriously and this created an ongoing contradiction in my life. The struggle between the religious ‘code’ I lived by and the pleasure I derived from my addiction to pornography. Continue reading